Tuesday, May 30, 2017

THE LAST FEW WEEKS

Well sheesh.  And just like that, May is gone!
I don't know how this month always sneaks away from me so quickly.  Busy month for us I guess.  Despite the lack of updates, we did do some stuff.  Lets talk about it in a mega-post of mini posts!

*warning: it's a dense update.  You may want to consider grabbing a snack before you start, and possibly plan for a potty break


MOM HAD A BIRTHDAY:

The big 29.
Yes it's true, I'm officially into my last year of 20's.  
And I'm officially loved!  My wonderful friends and adorable little family made my day 100% amazing.  I got treated to lunch (twice!), I was given some amazing cupcakes, my kids were whisked away for play dates so I could sit in bubble baths, and I had steak and shrimp and watched my girls eat a pound of peanuts at "the peanut store" (Texas Roadhouse).  Happy Birthday to me! 



MOANA MOVIE NIGHT

Several months ago we took the girls to the cheap theater to see the new Disney movie, Moana.  They loved it, and Tim and I really liked it, and we all got caught up in the fun of a family outing, and how dang cute it was to listen to the girls sing all the songs for days and days, so we bought it!... 

And then I was really bothered for some reason by the idea of the girls just getting something like a new movie for nothing.  So, I decided to make them earn it, and we made a chart.  



Their little car moved forward when they were good fast listeners, or when they got their chores done, or when they were kind to each other and peacemakers in our home, or when they were reverent at church, or good at the store... you get the idea.  When those things didn't happen, the car would move back.  And that was a bummer.  Brinlee has had similar systems and was really excited about it.  Mckenna though didn't quite get it, and so she really kind of made it rough.

But, after a LOT of patience and hard work, they finally got there! 
So we did a mega family movie night.  They drove to the "movie theater" (our living room), and I gave them each some fake money, and set up some movie tickets and popcorn and treats for them to "buy", then they had to give their tickets to the person to get ripped in half, and then we all sat and enjoyed the movie together.  It was just as good the second time, and the girls were in love with the whole thing!  Not a bad little evening.




THE KINDERGARTENER IS HERE: 

A couple Saturdays ago I took this little goon downtown for her "kick-off to kindergarten" day!



She was beyond excited.  And, even though I am in denial about this whole kindergarten business, I have to admit it was actually really really fun!  It was put on by the Columbus school district, so it wasn't at her school.  We will get to go walk through Winterset and her classroom and all of that later on.  But they put on a really exciting day for those little soon-to-be kindergarteners.
There were bouncy houses, crafts, field-day games (like the classic colorful parachute with bouncy balls, my favorite!), rescue vehicles to see, school buses to climb into, teachers to talk to, they went through a lunch line and were served a little school lunch in a real cafeteria, and the whole time all the people there were just oogling over those kids and telling them how awesome they are!  Our little lady just beamed ear to ear the entire time!


She made it back home with all kinds of goodies that she could not wait to show Tim.  As soon as we got home, she burst through the door and yelled out a very excited "Dad! The kindergartener is HERE!!!"

Mercy.  I really can NOT believe we are getting ready for all of this stuff! My little emotional cup very easily overflows when I do much thinking about it.  But oh boy is she excited!  And honestly, I suppose I am too.  She is going to do so great, 
and she is going to LOVE it!  



MOMMY'S DAY:

For Mother's Day this year we attempted to get a good picture of me and the girls...
we took several (read: we took way more pictures than a person should ever take at one time), and we only ended up with a few fairly decent ones.  These girls are tough picture takers!  But if you look at them all and then kind of merge them together in your head, you do end up with a pretty awesome photo.  So here they all are.  Have fun merging!

I sure do love being mommy to these blonde little angel babies.  They are my whole world!




IT'S A FAMILY THING:

We have been so blessed to find a family-away-from-family here in Ohio, and particularly lately I have been feeling just how lucky we are to be surrounded by such wonderful friends.  We are seeing each other through a lot, and I just can't imagine a better group to be doing all of this with.  Love this crew!



FAIRY HOUSE:

Remember that little gingerbread house kit that you got back in December that you stashed away in the cupboard and completely forgot about?
Well who says you can't build it in May?
And who says you can't go through your craft drawers and spiff it up in a little nontraditional fashion?
And who says you can't call that gingerbread house a Fairy House instead?
And who says you can't put it outside? And build a flying fairy runway? And decorate that runway with flowers? And add some landscaping?  And a little plate of fake food? And a sign written in darling Pre-K handwriting that says "Fairies Welcome"?

I don't see any reasons why not to....
So we did!



WELCOME SUMEMR:

I hate to speak prematurely here, but we have been having some awesome, and very warm weather lately, and I find myself replacing what should probably still be the word "Spring" with the word "Summer"...  
In fact, we did the whole sunscreen and swimsuit routine a week or two ago and spent the afternoon at the splash pad!  It was bliss!  Slap my wrists if I'm jumping the gun, but I'm gonna do it anyway - 
Welcome Summer!  
We have big plans for you!




THERE'S NO AGE LIKE 5:

Remember a few weeks ago when Brinlee turned 5?
Well, she's just so dang cute, and she has such a fun little group of friends, and I'm always up for an excuse to eat food and chat with my mommy friends, and heaven knows I love birthdays!, and the weather has been so amazing...
Kind of a dangerous combo.
In fact Tim's exact words were "You failed again to plan a simple little party".

Oops.
But, meh.  Oh well!  It was fun anyway!


We've been stuck in the Land of Oz for quite some time now at our house.  Brinlee saw the movie a while ago and fell in love!  We are in the middle of reading the book right now with her, and we have been singing all the songs for weeks.  Which kind of just tickles me!  I am a big fan myself and have loved that she likes it so much.  Plus, it makes for a really fun, and really darling little birthday brunch!


And, as promised, without further ado, I give you, the Dorothy dress!


Seriously.  Be still my heart.  Isn't that just about the cutest thing you've ever seen?!
And she adores it!
Oh this girl. She really is great!



POTTY TIME PERHAPS?:

Oh yes, we have started testing the waters in the potty department with this little girlie.  So far she doesn't seem super interested.  But she also hasn't refused.  And she does hate getting her diaper changed these days, so... maybe soon!



SISTER SUNDAY:

Because you just never know when an indoor rainstorm might catch you by surprise and ruin your reading time with your sis.  You can't be too prepared!




SWEET NEW RIDES:

I know I've posted a handful of bike pictures already.  But we have been out on bikes literally every day since then, so I thought it might deserve a closer look.  Here she is!


Isn't she a beauty?
Brinlee and The Princess Bike had a pretty classic love/hate relationship for a while.  All she wanted to do was ride it, but she couldn't quite make it go like she wanted at first, and she had a couple spills.  But boy, she's gotten the hang of it now and that relationship is nothing but love!


Mckeena has been going out with Brinlee every day to ride bikes, and she was pretty dang happy on that little push-along bike.  See? 


Darling, obviously! But it became pretty clear pretty fast that she really was too big for that little thing.  So, we added another little wheeled friend to our summer-time-fun family.  
Introducing "Be-oo and Yay-yo and Red Bikle With the Peddlings"!


She loves her new bikle! Buutttt.... so far she is completely uninterested in those peddlings (peddles). She can't figure them out, but also doesn't really want to be helped.  So, she walks it along with her feet... just like the little push-along bike.
Oh well. At least she's having fun, right?


I don't think I'll mind if this is our whole summer.  Watching these girls ride around is fun!




OH LITTLE GARDEN:

A few weeks ago the girls and I went and picked out seeds, and we cleared out our little garden box, and they put on their darling little gardening gloves and helped me get some stuff planted, and we were all really excited!
And that very evening we peaked outside to take another look at our hard work, and all that was there were a bunch of holes!  Some animal had come and dug up all our seeds!


The girls were pretty crushed, and I was just irritated.
But we did get some stuff re-planted though, and look at what we have now!


We are a little late now getting going with a garden (not for lack of trying!), but our round two is so far so good!  Fingers crossed!


CLASSIEST POOL DAY EVER:

Did I mention that we're getting some really nice, warm weather?
And did I mention that our little kiddie pool died at the end of last summer?

Well, today we really could have used it! It was a really warm day, and the girls really wanted to be outside. But we were all just melting.  Luckily we have no shame and don't mind getting a little creative.  I ventured down to the basement and came back up with a few things I thought might work, and before we knew it, we had the makings of the oddest pool day ever.  But hey, it worked!  We stayed cool, and had a blast!
Oh, and had some Otter Pops.  That always makes things great!



Sunday, May 7, 2017

SISTER SUNDAY

A Lesson In Numbers

Scene: Brinlee sitting on the couch with the quiet book, looking at and practicing numbers and counting, Mckenna next to Brinlee, jumping on the couch like a monkey

Brinlee, pointing to the number 1: "Mckenna, what number is this?"
Mckenna, still jumping: "Line!"
Brinlee, very patiently: "No, it's one."
Mckenna, still jumping: "Ok Bin-lee!"
Brinlee, pointing to number 7: "Ok Mckenna, what number is this?"
Mckenna, still jumping: "Upside down!"
Brinlee, still very patiently: "No sis, it's seven."
Mckenna, still jumping: "Ok Bin-lee!"
Brinlee, pointing to the number 8: "Mckenna, what number is this?"
Mckenna, still jumping: "SNOWMAN!!"
Brinlee, a little less patiently: "No Mckenna, it's eight."
Mckenna, still jumping: "Ok Bin-lee!"

Cut to Tim and I in the kitchen, just about dying with laughter and wondering why in the world we didn't video record this!


Friday, May 5, 2017

FIVE AND FABULOUS

Well, we had a birthday!
Remember this sweet little squishy-faced fuzz head?


Well check her out now! 
5 and fabulous!


This girl...
If I could go back to my 20-year-old self, and tell me that in 9 years I would be spending every day with the sweetest, funniest, happiest, smartest, goofiest, most loving, most creative, most amazing little 5 year old there ever was... honestly, this post might have come several years sooner.  Because my 29-year-old-time-traveling self would have told me how wonderful my life is, and 20-year-old me would not have wanted to wait!!!


I cannot believe how much we love this little blonde-haired angel girl.  And I really can't believe how big she is getting! Every day is something new with her.  She amazes us all the time and is such a joy and blessing to have in our lives.  She is quite a tender-hearted emotional little thing.  We get the whole spectrum with her... But most days Brinlee is just a fun, happy little girl!  

Let's have a little look at what this lady is like right now. 
Here is her birthday Interview for this year:

What is your name? Brinlee Borup… oh yeah, Brinlee KAY Borup
How old are you? 4… no, 5!
What is your favorite color? Purple 
What is your favorite food? Peanut butter and honey sandwiches
What is your favorite animal? Snake
What is your favorite book? The BFG and The Mixed-Up Chameleon
What is your favorite song? Twinkle Twinkle Little Star... And the songs from the Moana movie... and from Newsies, and from Wizard of Oz... and I like the harp, and the violin, and the horns (aka instrumental/orchestral music)
What is your favorite TV show? The Magic School bus
What is your favorite movie? The Wizard of Oz
What is your favorite game? Uno and Slap Jack, and playing snakes
What is your favorite toy? Hank, and snake, and bone
What is your favorite treat? Candy… cotton candy! I've never had it, but I really want to try it sometime.
What is your favorite thing to learn about? Snakes
What is your favorite thing to wear? My Ariel jammies
What is your favorite holiday? Christmas
What do you want to be when you grow up? A zoo keeper
Who is your best friend? Alex
Where is your favorite place to go? Chick-Fil-A, and COSI… and daddy’s school to go swimming
What is something you love to do? Play sea (sea animals and mermaids), and being outside coloring with chalk.  And I love to play in the car and “go places”!
What is something you are really good at? Painting and pretending
What is something that makes you really happy? Playing with mommy
What is something you really don't like? When McKenna hits me
If you had lots of money, what would you buy? Candy
If you were an animal, what would you be? A snake
If you had a magic power, what would it be? The power to fly
Where in the world do you want to visit someday? Chick-Fil-A
Who is the most handsome man in the world? Dad 
What do you love the best about your family? That McKenna is in my family
What's your favorite scripture story? When Jesus died on the cross and was resurrected again, because it means that someday I can have my body and my family forever


She is such a smarty!  She has known all her letters, shapes, and numbers for a long time, but to her bag of tricks she has added simple addition and subtraction math problems, back seat driving directions (which way's left and which way's right), rhyming words, patterns, days of the week, months of the year, knock knock jokes, handwriting (she does the lower and upper case alphabet, most of her numbers, small words, and can write her name), recognizes several sight words, she is starting to figure out telling time, and she is right on the verge of figuring out this whole reading thing! She still goes crazy in the library and loves to bring home stacks and stacks of books on whatever is her topic of interest at the time.  She still loves anything about the human body, she is obsessed with ocean animals, we did a trains and airplanes phase, and we still go back to spiders and insects fairly frequently, particularly beetles lately. She has an incredible memory for facts and stories and has several of her favorite books, fairy tales, and scriptures memorized.  She still loves to pull book after book off of her shelf, but when it comes to serious reading, this girl is into the heavy stuff.  We have gone through several chapter books already reading to her at night, and she has a big list of others she can't wait to get to.  She likes to ask questions (all day long!) and is always excited when she comes across something she can learn about with an "experiment!" (Do these things sink or float? What different sounds can these objects make?  Can I build a leak-proof Lego boat? Which food will the ants like best? Is there something in my room that's light enough for my Chick-Fil-A balloon to lift up and carry? ...etc)  She always has her little wheels turning and oh how those eyes sparkle when she's learning something new! She will sit and listen all day to anyone who has anything interesting to show her.  And she loves to teach!  Her little voice will gladly and very enthusiastically fill the ears of anyone willing to listen for as long as they will let her talk.  Thank goodness she has a little sister to take care of.  McKenna happily spends all day soaking up and repeating everything Brinlee does and says.  It's darling!
Whew.  Look out kindergarten, this girl is ready to go!


Brinlee is so goofy, and so creative! She still loves to dress up and pretend to be a character.  She enjoys watching movies and a few shows, but her true love is the reenacting of the movie/show after it's over.  We barely make it to the credits before she disappears upstairs and comes back not only dressed as her favorite character, but with character assignments for the rest of us as well.  We currently are very familiar with Moana, The Wizard of Oz, Newsies, Finding Dory, and The BFG.  But we also aren't limited to the screen or pages from a book either.  This girl likes to play "games from my imagination" as well.  She makes up stories and plot lines and even theme songs.  Often her character assingments are random animals, shapes, familiar objects... the list goes on really.  There is no limit when it comes to this girl and her creative little juices.  It is so fun to watch her at work!  She doesn't even always have the most willing participants (namely McKenna), but it doesn't hold her back.  Never fear, she'll make it work! This girl is patient and flexible and will take any and all make-believe play she can get.

She is also starting to show a bit of an artistic edge.  She loves to color and draw and we find her little sketches all over the house.  She LOVES to build with play dough, loves sidewalk chalk, paints, and would cut, tape, and paste together little projects all day long if I would let her!  And she loves to sing!  She has several musical selections we often hear ringing through the house (or loudly through the neighborhood while she's riding her bike).  Moana, Seize the Day, and If I Only Had A Brain are some of my personal current favorites, but she also likes to make up her own little songs.  Sometimes she uses the tunes of other songs and replaces her own lyrics, sometimes it's all completely original.  But it's all fabulous, and very heartfelt!  And she has quite an ear for a bit of the finer stuff as well.  She often asks for the "music without words" and loves to listen to movie score soundtracks and orchestral pieces.  She likes to try to pick out the different parts and the different instruments playing (particularly the trombones, horns, harps, and the violins), and it warms my little heart every time I catch her waving her arms and conducting along in the back seat of the car.  Honestly, I don't think this girl could get more awesome!

She's getting quite the little sense of humor too.  She loves to laugh and often does a pretty good job making the rest of us laugh too.  It is seriously contagious when something tickles her little funny bone, and she says some clever and funny things!  I'd have to keep a camera on her all day to remember all the great things she says.  But here are a few of the recent noteworthy ones:

"Scrumpled" - Her word for anything wrinkled, scrunched, bunched, or annoyingly out of order
"McKenna, we can't go in the road, because mom doesn't want smashed kids!"
"Toast is my life!"
"Look, I'm almost your age!" - standing next to someone comparing height
"Sorry I can't help you, my brain is turned off right now."
"How many more sleeps?" - how we count the number of days til the next exciting thing
"No thanks" - her answer to anything she doesn't want, or doesn't want to do at the time
"Mom, you're cleaning up lunch? Without even being asked? You're a good maid."
"This song makes my legs dance!"
"You're my best buddy"
"That McKenna... she's a stinker"
"Ok, let's remain calm"
"Clear out, I need some space!"
"When is later?" and "Just is the answer yes, or no?" - when we give the answers 'later' and 'maybe'
"If I lay down and puff my tummy up big, look! I'm like a cooking pizza in the oven, bubbling away!"


This girl is so sweet.  She is a very emotional little thing and definitely has her moments.  She knows what she wants and she can be pretty stubborn and defiant sometimes.  Lately we've been doing some hot sauce on the tongue for talking back, arguing, "snotty talk"/whining, and saying 'No'.  She really hates the hot sauce!  But luckily we don't have to pull it out too often.  Generally she is just good and really does try hard to be obedient.  And she has such a loving, tender heart!  She is not embarrassed to boldly be herself, which I love about her!  But she also keeps an eye out for others and how they are feeling.  She wants everybody to be getting along and wants to see others happy, and she gets very upset when she thinks others are sad or disappointed.  It's probably the thing she asks me most of all, "Mom are you happy?" and "Mom are you proud of me?"  She loves her friends, loves to make new friends, loves to be around and play with little babies, and LOVES family time.  Her only reservation about going to kindergarten is that she won't be able to keep me company all day (pardon me while I wipe my melted heart up off the floor!).  She tells me every day that I'm her best buddy, she adores Mckenna, and she really hates that Tim has to be gone at school all day.  Her very favorite thing in this world is when our whole family can be together.  She doesn't even care what we're doing, just as long as we're all there. And if you're having a down day and need a little pick-me-up, she's your gal!  She always has a hug to share and compliment to give, like "Wow, you are really strong!" or "Hey you are really smart at that!" or "What a great idea you had!"  Such a sweetheart!

She is the best little helper.  She sometimes mysteriously turns into rubber all the sudden when there's work to do, and it is sort of uncanny how often her legs suddenly hurt when she is asked to do something... but she is usually pretty willing to run quick errands for me, or do little chores, and she pretty regularly checks in to see if there's anything she can help with.  
And she is an amazing big sister!  These two are doing a lot more interactive play these days, which I just can't get enough of!  They run around here in character and costume and deep in the middle of little make-believe games all day long.  Their giggling is music to this mama's ears.  I love, love, LOVE it!  Brinlee does like to be a little bossy with Mckenna at times, and she is occasionally the culprit when tears are involved.  But she does try hard to be patient and keep Mckenna happy, and she never does retaliate when Mckenna gets testy.  She reads to Mckenna, she builds lego creations for her, she helps her clean, helps her get dressed, teaches her, cuddles her, shares with her, and feels genuinely lonely for her when Mckenna isn't around.  If only everyone could have a big sister like Brinlee!

Her tender little spirit is truly amazing and is such a joy and blessing, and example to me.  She loves her Heavenly Father, and Jesus, and she wants to be good and "keep the Holy Spirit in our home".  She keeps me in check and re-teaches me almost every day about what's really important and how to be truly Christlike.  I really don't know what our little family would do without her!  I feel so privileged to be the mommy of such an amazing little lady!



And a fabulous, darling little face like that really does need celebrated, wouldn't you say?
So celebrate we did, streamers and all!

Quite the little photo montage huh?  She has been so fun!


We knew daddy would be busy and not home until the evening, and of course Brinlee couldn't imagine any real partying without him.  So we had the day to fill. I had kind of planned on getting her out and about for something fun, but that little angel had different plans! Her only birthday requests were to 1. Paint with shaving cream, 2. Cuddle and read books together, 3. Make and decorate her own cake, and 4. Get to choose her own dinner.  So that's what we did! After a special birthday breakfast we got going with her list.


The birthday cake masterpiece!  
I have never seen So. Many. Sprinkles!!! 


Once daddy was home it was time for the good stuff!  She had been eyeing the presents on the piano all day, and bless her heart she had been SO patient.  But once Tim came through that door, she couldn't wait another second.  She didn't even let him take off his shoes!


I don't know that she had a very favorite gift, she loved them all!  She got a journal and some colored pens, a few new chapter books, Mckenna got her her own copy of The Mixed-Up Chameleon plus a few yummy chapsticks,  she got a Dorthy dress and ruby slippers (which she loves!!! More to come on that later), and....


A BIKE!!!


She had seen some kids doing "big bikes" a few times when we were out for walks, and she thought that was pretty cool.  But she hadn't really thought to ask for one, and had no idea it was coming. She was so surprised, and SO excited! Despite the rainy afternoon she strapped on that helmet and hit the parking lot with nothing but smiles!


Mckenna inherited the little push-along bike, which she was thrilled about!  Big surprise, she's a little reckless on it.  Thank goodness for helmets!


Brinlee's choice of dinner was none other than the beloved Chic-Fil-A, of course!  She had been talking about it for weeks.  Chicken nuggets, a play place, and balloons?  It's the childhood happiness trifecta!


And to finish off the evening we cut into that fabulous cake!
McKenna singing happy birthday was probably one of the highlights of the day.  We sang, Brinlee blew out the candles, and then for probably a good half hour McKenna just sang over and over, and over to herself,
"Happy Birt-day Dear Bwin-Weeeeeee....
Happy Birt-day to yoooouuuuuuu........
Foo!"  (her blowing out her own invisible candle for the big finish)



Unfortunately the evening ended in some tears and a rushed bedtime.  It had been a big, long day, and by the end a certain little birthday girl was a little too tired, and a little too emotional.  When it was time to eat her cake she broke down and cried about how "I just miss being 4!"


But after a good sleep and some leftover cake for breakfast, she announced to me this morning that she's decided that being 5 is going to be pretty awesome after all.  And I would have to agree!  With how amazing this girl is, there's no way it can be anything else!

This is going to be a fantastic year for her, I can just feel it!

Look out world, this little 5-year-old is ready to rock!